Women. We are unique, complicated creatures. We can hardly understand ourselves half the time and the odds of anyone else even beginning to understand us is wishful thinking. While every girl wouldn't be who they were without their best girlfriends who serve an all encompassing purpose that I couldn't even begin to describe, in my short life I have learned that every girl, no matter who she is, needs to have guy friends.
Some might overlook the benefits of having a solid group of guy friends because they have dads, brothers and significant others to play the part but that is only a common misconception. Not to discredit anything that those people do to contribute to our lives but lets be honest...it isn't the same. Guy BFF's bring an entirely different skillset to the table and a perspective that can sometimes rival that of your female besties. All in all, I have been fortunate enough to have a great group(s) of guy friends and I think it is high time they receive the recognition they deserve for what they mean to the girls who are smart enough to appreciate their attributes.
1.The Drama. Any girl who has only guy friends because they "are less drama" is a dumb biddy who probably runs her mouth too much, is most likely the root of all drama and has no girlfriends left to speak of. If you have a true relationship with your guy besties you know that there is still the drama it's just better. They will talk about who/what you want and won't talk about what you consider to be off limits. They are the worlds greatest Peanut Gallery and always agree with you (for the most part anyways). Guys secretly like gossiping, just not to the extent that we do. :)
2. They are protective. They always have your back. Always. If they don't then you probably aren't as good of friends as you thought.
3. No Judgment. They will never tell you shot gunning beers is "unladylike" and they don't care about the terrible late night food choices you make after going out. Also, you never have to worry about them talking about your outfit because they have no idea what fashion is.
4. Sports. They can play/watch games with you and actually know what they are talking about.
5. Vulgarity. They always appreciate your dirty jokes and you can talk shit to them without them getting their feelings hurt.
6. Guys. They offer a perspective on dating that your girlfriends can't and they won't tell you what you want to hear just so you don't get your feelings hurt.
7. They are easy going. While they care about your feelings and any problems you might be having they don't feel the need to "talk it out". They'll be there if/when you're ready to talk about it but you'll never have to worry about them pressuring you to "let it out" while awkwardly rubbing your back.
8. They have as low a tolerance for bitchy girls as you do.
9. With them, "sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on" is business as usual.
10. They always seek your approval on who they're dating and that makes you feel a bit powerful. Plus, the other girls know this and are super nice to you...that is, if they know what's good for them.
11. Gay BFF! Every girl knows that this is the holy grail of friendships. It's like every friend you've ever had in one. They can go shopping with you AND help you move out of your apartment without missing a beat. If you have one of these, be thankful and never let them out of your sight!
12. They know you watch Family Guy and Bob's Burgers and other embarrassing things you don't usually disclose and don't make fun of you for it.
13. If your car breaks down they will know what to do without you having to call your dad right away. Also, if you just so happen to accidentally drive your jeep off a muddy hill in the pouring rain and almost roll into a tree they will help you get it unstuck a few days later! (shout out to Seth, Jason, Doug and Friz for that one)
14. They probably enjoy playing video games which at times can be annoying but if you're lucky they will give you their headset while they're playing and let you harass whatever nine year old boy they are playing on the other side of the world and make them think they are getting schooled by a girl.
15. They are great to have around when you're out with a group of friends because they will surely make any ex or any potential suitor jealous. Also you'll never have to worry about any weirdo creeping up behind you and copping a feel on the dance floor because you're each others go to when it starts getting dancey.
16. Your mom loves them.
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